My Holiday

Last month, I went to Bedugul with my family. I woke up at 6 am in the morning. I went to my bathroom and started to prepare the things that I need, like my clothes, and shoes and also had breakfast. We arrived at Bedugul around 9am. The weather was very cold and windy, so I took my jacket and put it on. The first destination is Bratan Lake. In Bratan Lake, we rented a speed boat and used to travel around the lake. It was so much fun, with wind and the water. After we rented a speed boat, we bought meatballs and ate it on the side of a lake. The meetballs was very tasty and hot. Around 11am, we went to Kebun Raya Bedugul. There we bought a bucket of strawberry and peanut. We sat on the green fresh grass for about one hour, and we talked about lot things because it was very difficult for our family to find such time to chat and talked to each other. After that we walked around Kebun Raya looked at the trees and the flowers. There are a lot of unique things to find in Kebun Raya. It was very beautiful, so we took some pictures with my camera in my mobile phone. We walked for just for a while, because 1 was very tired. Then we decided to have lunch in Candi Kuning market. I also bought a rabbit. I pick the brown one because it was very cute. I bought it with its cage and some vegetables for the rabbit. On our home, we stopped on the side of the road, to see a group of monkey. Then we gave them some peanut. I was very excited and a little afraid because the monkey was trying to jump inside the car. My father told me to close the window so the monkey wouldn’t jump in. We arrived home at 6 pm. I was very tired, but it was a fun and unforgettable experience for me and my family.

LOSING A FAMILY

Losing someone or something you love is very painful. After a significant loss, you may experience all kinds of difficult and surprising emotions, such as shock, anger, and guilt. Sometimes it may feel like the sadness will never let up. While these feelings can be frightening and overwhelming, they are normal reactions to loss. Accepting them as part of the grieving process and allowing yourself to feel what you feel is necessary for healing. I just lost my cousin in an accident. If I could roll back time, I'd try to stop it from ever happening. But since I can't do that, I try to think about the positive things that came out of those times. This is not something I could do at the time, and it's only now.
If you've ever experienced the death of family member, or perhaps someone very close to you then you'll understand how difficult it can be to imagine how you'll carry on without them. You are left wondering how in the world you will be able to make it through situations where you normally had them present. How will you handle celebrations that are normally joyful? Holidays, birthdays, and anniversaries can be really tough. No matter how you slice it, your life will never be the same, nor will your holidays. Things are forever changed. Time truly is a great healer. I know you've heard that before and it probably brings little comfort when you're fresh in your grief. But, I do promise it does get easier to deal with it as time passes on.
Most importantly, even though it sent me into my first depression, his taking his own life might have saved mine. I've gone through some very bad periods. But never once did I seriously consider suicide, because I knew how it affects the people you leave behind. It just was not an option. So laugh a lot, and remember that another love is right around the corner. Take one day at time, for as time moves on, the pain and humiliation of losing someone you love, will one day reduce from a throbbing pain, to a dull ache; and eventually a distant regrettable memory.